A Decision to Remember
Choosing a donor is one of the biggest decisions of your life. Not only are you bringing a child into this world, but you are also deciding on the genetic health and pre-disposition of your offspring. You will remember this decision for the rest of your life, and someday, may even tell your child how you went through the process of picking out the donor.
Where to Go
When it comes to finding a suitable donor, you have options. As you might imagine, we’ve dealt with a number of organizations that offer donor information, and over the years we’ve found a few that seem to stand out from the rest. Ask us, at your next appointment, and we’ll be happy to steer you in the right direction.
How to Choose
So how do you choose a donor? There is no one correct way of choosing. The process of picking a donor is a highly personal one that you and your spouse will make together. However this is not to say that there are no guidelines to help you make the best decision for your unique case.
As the best fertility specialist in Tucson , The Center for Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility offers invaluable advice regarding donor eggs and donor sperm and how to choose the best option.
- The ‘perfect donor’ doesn’t exist. It’s perfectly understandable that you want the very best for your would-be child. However, keep in mind that there is no donating woman or man out there who will match each and every criterion you create. Focus on the most important aspects for evaluating donors.
- Does the donor look like you? If you want your child to resemble you, then do your best to find a donor who resembles you, and you’ll have a better chance of having a child who also looks like you.
- Consider the physical appearance of the donor’s family’s. Find out if the donor’s appearance is unique or common in her family. E.g. is she tall in an otherwise short family…or is she a blonde while her siblings are brunettes?
- Match or complement your personality. If you like sports and would like your child to be athletically inclined, for example, you might want to choose an athletic donor so your child inherits that athletic physicality.
- Examine the donor’s medical history. This is especially important if your partner has a history of genetic disease in their family. If they do, you should choose a donor who does not have that condition in their family as well.
- Higher education does not equal greater intelligence. By the same token, a lack of higher education doesn’t indicate an intellectual shortcoming in the donor. Many factors, besides IQ, determine whether a donor attended college and what their level of professional success might have been. Of course that doesn’t mean you should disregard the information available, just not to weigh your decision too heavily on the donor’s stated IQ.
- Read their personal statements. These can simplify your job of choosing one donor from your short-list of candidates. The donor’s spirit and personality will reflect in these statements, one of which might connect with you more than another.
To view our current Donors please go to: www.fertilityselection.com and use the login: username: gelety / password: donors
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